Arranged Marriage
Arrange marriage is
the wedlock without love between husband and wife but rather an agreement that
involves other reasons such as political interest and elevation of social
status and such. What will be my stand regarding this idea? What can happen in
an arranged marriage?
I don’t agree on
the idea of arranged marriage because there are many possible problems that can
happen in the long term. First is the arranged couple, they will live an
unhappy life being wedded to a person they don’t love. There will be no joy
waking up in the morning married to a stranger. Another problem is, throughout
the whole process, the marriage will not work out because there is no
sincerity. Last possible problem is commitment. Without love, there will be
cheating and philandering. It will be possible that there will be no trust,
faith and commitment to both parties. Yes, arranged marriage in some situations can
be an advantage like strengthening of family ties and political interests but
we have to take in mind the lives of the couple.
We should choose on
whom we want to spend our lives with, not our parents, not our society and
certainly not our situations. I can’t imagine a life being arranged married to
a person that I don’t love, it will be a disaster for sure because I am a
really hopeless romantic person. I can only think about my future children growing
up in a loveless household, such a pity. I don’t want them to grow-up with
parents who are together because of an arrangement rather than love.
Love is something
that can’t be forced. It happens in the right moment, in the right time and to
the right person chosen by your heart, not by someone else.
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